I’ll Meet You Where You Are
Hello, love. I’m so glad you’re here. I’ve spent over a decade creating these study units just for you. I’ve grouped together ideas and put them in order so you can understand yourself better, each concept building on the last. I’ve seen so much growth happen when my clients learn this way and I want that for you, too. Whether you’re more likely to blossom with your day bookended with my face, my voice, and my encouragement, or you’d be more comfortable with less contact and you have a lot of self-drive to carry you through most days, there’s a support level that’s just right for you.
Each area of focus is built as a 3 month unit. Most units can be adjusted to every-other-week. Choose the level of support that fits you best or ask me to customize something for you. If I can, I will. Contact me here and let me know what speaks to you from the options below.
Support Levels
Mentoring Full Support $250/week (3 months): 50 min virtual session every week, 2 video connections a day, habit tracker app support with exclusive/custom rewards, texting, online workbook with homework
Mentoring Partial Extended Support $100/week (6 months): 50 min virtual session every other week, 10 min video check-in on the off week, limited texting, online workbook with homework
D/s Full Support $250/week (3 months): 2 video connections a day, app support with exclusive/custom rewards from Sir, weekly 50 min virtual session, texting, online workbook with homework, optional D/s contract* (if available).
D/s Partial Support $200/week (3 months): 1 video connection a day, app support with rewards from Sir, weekly 50 min virtual session, texting, online workbook with homework.
D/s Partial Extended Support $125/week (6 months): 50 min virtual session every other week, app accountability support (self-rewards), 10 min video check-in on the off week, limited texting, online workbook with homework
Curricula
Gender: Gender is a construct, chrononormativity, identified patient and the link to mental health, dysmorphia & dysphoria, attachment styles, break all the rules, where/how to go deeper with your gender, problem solving, the what/when/how/who of it all, finding the words
Body/Self Discovery: Inhabiting the body, relationships, life mapping, what is a compliment, love letters, finding your place, finding confidence, different kinds of energy, complete body system, ableism
Body/Pleasure: What is pleasure and who is it for, anatomy, shame and pleasure, consent and intimacy checklist, objectify yourself, erotica, unapologetic sexuality, reveling in yourself
Focus on Trauma Release: Chronic pain, somatics, toning, body & mind, working with what exists, ableism and bypassing, creativity, loving your whole self, parts work
Kink 101: What is kink and what’s it for, history of kink, separating sex & kink, recognizing power dynamics, pain response and self-harm, safe(r) kink, implements and toys, using D/s energy, Top/bottom/switch, attachment styles in kink, FFFF in kink & shame response, safe(r) pick-up play, scene basics, be your own Daddy
Kink & D/s: What makes you tick, target areas of your life that need support, trap of the past creating the present, change how your brain works, work around for triggers, intentionality can change your life, parasympathetic nervous system and boundaries, learning to observe, self-intimacy, True consent, relationships 24/7, rupture and repair
Submission: Recognizing power dynamics, pain response and self-harm, motivations, types of submission, how to get what you want and need while staying in the bottom, attachment styles, FFFF in kink & shame response, better kink and relationships, 24/7 dynamics, contract basics
Dom Level 1: Understand yourself and motivations, chrononormativity, temperature changes, gender, religion, & sexualized bodies, daily ritual and intentional lives, expansion and contraction, observing self, intimacy spreadsheet, true consent, rupture & repair, better/safer relationships, write a scene
Dom Level 2: Basic 5, fairytale breakdown (24/7), creativity in self-care, sadist/masochist, beauty in submission, soul-investigation, deeper on codependency, how to build relationships, layered scene building, contract basics, skill practice
You can contact me here to get started.
*A D/s contract with Sir Blooms (limited slots available) is a powerful tool which outlines specific agreements between both parties, is only available after a 3-month trial period, and must be renewed every 3 months by the agreement of both Sir Blooms and the client. The intention of a contract is to help clients feel held, contained, and focused on their goals of self-improvement by understanding explicitly what is expected of them and what happens if those contracted goals are not met.
Contracts come with D/s symbolic items like cuffs/collars, chosen pet names, weekday morning and evening check-ins via texts or video, access to Higher Support which includes the possibility of weekend connections, Top Tier rewards with Sir, Findomming, and discounted in-person kink sessions after 3 months.