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Targeted Mentoring

$125/week

  • Lighter Support
  • 50 Min/Weekly Session
  • Intimacy Manual
  • Online Homework
  • Targeted Focus
  • Details
  • Cozy Vibes for the Self-Motivated Learner
  • 3-Month Curricula available
  • Build Solid Self-Care Practice

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Full Support Mentoring

$250/week (3 months)

  • Nurturing Full Support
  • 55-75 Min/Weekly Session
  • Intimacy Manual
  • Online Homework
  • Weekday Texting
  • Optional Weekend Texting
  • Weekday Check-in Videos
  • Optional Habit Tracker App
  • Optional Custom App Rewards
  • Details
  • 3-Month Curricula
  • Build Solid Self-Care Practice
  • Frequent Accountability Opportunities
  • Validation-Based
  • Weekly Focus
  • Faster, Deeper Growth Opportunities

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Targeted D/s

$125/week

  • Lighter Support in D/s Container
  • 50 Min/Weekly Session
  • Intimacy Manual
  • Kink Playlist
  • Online Homework
  • Targeted Focus
  • Details
  • Hotter Vibes for the Self-Motivated Learner
  • Power Dynamics
  • 3-Month Curricula
  • Build Solid Self-Care Practice
  • Kink As A Healing Modality
  • Optional App Support

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Full Support D/s

$250/week (3 months)

  • Full Support in D/s Container
  • 55-75 Min/Weekly Session
  • Intimacy Manual
  • Kink Playlist
  • Online Homework
  • Weekday Texting
  • Optional Weekend Texting
  • Weekday Check-in Videos
  • Custom Habit Tracker App Tasks & Rewards
  • Optional Findomming
  • Discounted Kink Experiences
  • Optional Addtl Daily Connections
  • Details
  • Tightest Vibes for Full Submersion
  • Dom/me Training
  • Power Dynamics
  • 3-Month Curricula
  • Kink As A Learning Tool
  • Build Solid Self-Care Practice
  • Frequent Accountability Opportunities
  • Validation-Based
  • Faster, Deeper Growth Opportunities
  • Optional D/s Contract W/Sir Blooms

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The structure you need dictates how we build our work together. That could mean anything from weekly 50-min sessions that include homework, to multi-daily connections that keep you on track. I can customize a program just for you where you can learn and thrive, either in or out of power dynamics.

Together we’ll explore who you are, what you need, and how you naturally give and receive love, understand the world, and feel best moving through life. You need to be able to solidly understand how all of your parts work, and how they work together, before others can learn how to make your system purrrr.

I like the metaphor of an Owner’s Manual for your body because you should be the one who knows the most about you, and literally own your own body, before you hand it over to someone else for limited use in all the ways that feel good to you. When we talk about healthy sex, we sometimes forget that we have to have our own healthy sex first. When trauma is a factor, it’s infinitely more important that you understand your needs before inviting another human into the mix!

I work with a lot of folks who are neurospicy, existing in a phase of life that is in flux or feels ungrounded, living in reaction states, struggling with isolation and/or addiction, and generally feeling like their life is unmanageable. Common themes are gender journeys, reparenting and/or embracing adulthood, attachment styles, practical self-care (feeding/watering, sleeping, movement, connection, joy/whimsy), trauma-informed work and emotional processing, mental health issues, and boundaries.

While working with me, you’ll build a foundational understanding of your intimacy needs, a solid self-care practice, and experience the growth you’ve been hoping for and needing. If we're in a D/s structure, you'll also qualify for discounted in-person kink sessions, exclusive app rewards, and the only way I engage in Findomming. Benefits include the option (space allowing) to be under D/s contract with me. This is the only way to have an ongoing 24/7 D/s dynamic with me.


You can find more details about my curricula here.

**Custom Rewards: Earn leather gear made by Sir Blooms, private dates, additional 1-on-1 time, coworking, findomming and more.

*A D/s contract with Sir Blooms (limited slots available) is a powerful tool which outlines specific agreements between both parties, is only available after a 3-month trial period, and must be renewed every 3 months by the agreement of both Sir Blooms and the client. The intention of a contract is to help clients feel held in learning to put themselves first and focused on their goals of self-improvement by understanding explicitly what is expected of them and what happens if those contracted goals are not met.


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