Hi there! I’m glad you’re here. Many folks, especially queer folks, spend their lives masking to fit in, contorting themselves to slot into a binary world that doesn’t validate them.

I make self- & community-care into bite-sized, possible pieces by weaving various levels of support. My passions are helping you gather all the pieces of yourself you’ve left behind (or had to ignore for safety), and teaching you the skills you missed along the way.

Need help making your life make sense? I got you.

Sir Blooms is a genuine, compassionate, thoughtful human and I’m grateful to have him in my life. In our D/s relationship built on love and trust, I consistently feel safe. With his creativity and empathy, he has helped me spot unhealthy behavior patterns and coping skills, and taught me healthier alternatives. Working with Sir Blooms has been – hands down – one of the best investments I’ve ever made in myself. AUM