Power Dynamics

In my work as a Pro Dom I offer: (If D/s is not for you, might I suggest you check out my mentoring offerings here?)

1) Blended Mentoring+D/s Practice: Ages 25+. Choose which area of focus you are drawn to from the available I’ll Meet You Where You Are curriculums (or ask for my help if you aren’t sure) and commit to doing 3 months of self-exploration. I’ll customize a level of support where you can learn and thrive with the amount of daily connection that is right for you. You’ll build a foundational understanding of your intimacy needs, a solid self-care practice, experience the growth you’ve been hoping for and needing, and also qualify for discounted in-person kink sessions, exclusive app rewards, and the only way I engage in Findomming. Benefits include the option (space allowing) to be under D/s contract with me. This is the only way to have an ongoing 24/7 D/s dynamic with me.

2) Stand-Alone Kink Session – If you haven’t worked with me before, you may inquire here.

I walked into my first dungeon in San Diego, CA after a ten year journey into wellness and alternative healing modalities, during which I became a master level energy practitioner, became certified as a health coach and in energy medicine, opened my own wellness center and continued studying narrative therapy, CDT, DBT, craniosacral, HSP, reflexology, aromatherapy, nutrition, the parasympathetic nervous system, and several handfuls of body/mind/energy protocols and theories. What I experienced in that dungeon brought several things together for me into a space where I could see myself in new ways. Power dynamics and understanding consent gave me a new language through the intimacy of healing kink, and an opportunity to somatically release old trauma in me that previously had nowhere to go.

I recognized Power Dynamics as a healing modality, but not until after I spent a few months diving into the shame and guilt I felt in being pulled to work in them. My conservative, religious upbringing set me up to feel terrible in a D/s setting, (which is ironic when you consider that Jesus was possibly the ultimate masochist and sadism is woven throughout all the history of Christianity) but once I got to the other side of that unlayering, I haven’t looked back and am passionate about helping others who also want to get out of shame-laden, cult, religious thinking.

I started my first Distance Dom program a few years before the pandemic, while traveling up and down the West Coast and holding workshops. Once the pandemic hit, I made Seattle my home, went 100% virtual, and used my talents to create growth opportunities for clients from a distance. I’m so happy to be able to bring back some thoughtful, limited, in-person work at this time.